Hypnosis is intended to influence the thought process of an individual through simple persuasion techniques.
This practice of hypnosis involves the deliberate use of articulated phrases and words, as well as the body language and gestures, to communicate with the subconscious mind of another individual and influence his thoughts and behavior.
However, even the most experienced practitioners make mistakes while trying to handle people.You should be aware of the common hypnosis mistakes that you need to avoid in order to be a successful practitioner.
Hypnosis Mistake #1: Inadequate Planning
The initial step in any form of hypnosis, especially covert hypnosis, is the establishment of rapport with the listener. It is essential to build trust and comfort with the other person. You should speak and act in a manner that allows the individual to communicate his problems or expectations clearly.
This technique requires the application of various techniques and influential phrases on the listener. However, many people approach the technique without adequate planning and framing of phrases. You can prevent your effort from failing by following the three steps discussed below.
- Have a plan: Most people make the mistake of approaching a person without prior planning. You cannot stimulate a person by merely applying stereotype techniques on him. A basic rapport building plan and a sequence of influential phrases or actions is essential to bring the person into a trance. However, this plan needs to be flexible to adapt to the mindset of every listener.
- Understand the emotional state of another person: An angry or nervous person will never try to comprehend your words. You should try to help the person relax and feel comfortable, prior to initiation of the hypnotism.
- Study the impact of your plan: Most people fail to test the effect of their plan on the minds of the listener. You can assess whether an individual is comprehending your suggestion or not, by focusing on his eye movements. If his eyes start entering a REM or horizontal eye movements, you can proceed with your approach of hypnosis.
Hypnosis Mistake #2: Trying To Be Too Nice
This is one of the deadliest mistakes made by many practitioners. Hypnosis is all about being in total control. Your main aim is to control the mind of the other person, and get him to listen to you.
Being good and courteous is definitely a good thing, but being overly nice and bending over to others is not. This can create a suspicious feeling in the mind of the listener at the outset, and his mind might not allow any of your techniques to work effectively.
Don’t be nice and wonderful to an extent that it hinders your capacity to communicate your thoughts and execute your plan of action. Be level-headed and allow the other person to view you as a person who is genuinely interested in providing assistance.
Hypnosis Mistake #3: Display Of Your Desperateness
You might inadvertently show your desperateness for achieving the end result, in the midst of your conversation. When you wish to accomplish something very badly, you tend to become anxious.
Your face will reveal your anxiety, and you will not be able to concentrate on your body language, hypnotic tone and phrases.
Moreover, remember that a practitioner is a mere guide into the other’s mind. Avoid using negative phrases or propositions like ‘but‘ while communicating. You should also never use the first person remarks as ‘I‘, ‘my‘, while bringing a person into trance and directing his mind to accept your stance.
It is pertinent that you are confident and strong. There are multiple techniques to aid you in achieving your goal. Focus on bringing the mind of the other person under control, rather than thinking about the end result.
Hypnosis Mistake #4: Highly Assertive Or Aggressive Behavior
A common mistake made during covert hypnosis is to try too hard and be aggressive during the process of rapport building. This can lead to the ‘law of reversed effect‘. When your discussion does not lead you to the desired result, aggressiveness creeps in and spoil your chances of influencing another individual.
It is imperative to stay poised, and be assured of the effect of your skills. You should keep-up your efforts of trying different techniques till you succeed in your efforts. Sometimes, the use of ‘pattern interrupts’ works wonders, when your discussion heads into a deadlock or you are not in a position to change the topic.
Hypnosis Mistake #5: Illogical Pacing And Leading
In certain circumstances, practitioners try to get too serious about the end result. This over-attachment can block your capability to exert hypnosis techniques, and leads to illogical pacing and leading. If your subject doesn’t find your commands logical, they will fail to get into a trance.
Sometimes, the rapport building technique can make your counterpart feel uncomfortable towards you. The main reason is that your mind is focused on the ultimate aim than the process.
The best manner to overcome this mistake is to exercise control of your mind and communicating in accordance with clearly laid-out plans to train your emotional state of mind to act as per your will.
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